Wow, have I really changed my thinking in the last few weeks. For three years now I have been a SAHM and I have loved it as a Mom but struggled with it as a person. There were a lot of days where I felt "worthless" as far as not working a public job. Within the last few weeks I feel I have found my "nitch" as the keeper of the home. I have truly started to look at it as a J.O.B., yep that's right a JOB! And I realize it will be the most important one I have in this lifetime. And I am NOT "a dime a dozen."
I know that I am not superwoman and I cannot do everything everyone wants me to do at that very moment. I used to run around like Edith Bunker doing everything Madi wanted when she was an infant. Well, haha, now that she is a testy toddler I am letting her learn that we don't do everything she wants to do and we do not do everything RIGHT NOW, lol! It hurts me inside to discipline her but this is my job as her parent. I am her parent first, her friend second. I have to guide her and teach her what is best for her to be a productive member of society. For her to be patient, learn to share and strive as an independent person. So, yeah, I feel that this is an important occupation I have here on my shoulders and I am going to keep doing my best job to make our home a loving, fun, happy place where she can feel confident and safe with lots of wonderful memories.
I was guilty prior to having Madi as thinking of SAHMs kind of like Peg Bundy! Someone who sat on the couch eating bon bons and being sort of a weirdo not wanting to "work"...like the "cat lady." Boy was I wrong! If you are blessed enough to stay home with your children in our generation we have changed it from being a housewife to a domestic goddess :) It's all about the attitude.
Psalms 113:9
He maketh the barren woman to keep house, and to be a joyful mother of children. Praise ye the LORD.
5 comments:
I am home after 15 years (drawing unemployment til' a job comes along!) and I am busy!!!! I mow 2 to 3 times a week, I have painted, done tons of laundry, and cooked many, many dinners!
Liked this post...from one domestic goddess to another!
So glad to hear that you are embracing the role of SAHM, er, I mean, Domestic Goddess once again! It truly is a great one and there's nothing wrong with a Mommy's Day Out now and again, too!
I bet in a day you work harder then most people in the work world. My wife is a SAHM and works 10 times harder then I do.
my husband laughed at your header, mainly because i have a tiara that i wear around the house when i get down on being a sahm. keep up the good work. our children are the most important investment we make.
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